Looking at the today’s fast and
advanced lifestyle of ours, social and personal dynamics of life are changing.
Yes of course by all means the change is necessary, but the change should be
positive.But what kind of changes I am observing in society or in people’s lifestyle,
are making very slow but adverse effects, which are affecting their own life on
longer run.
There is ‘no’thing as social life.
Facebook, Twitter and other social
networking sites are becoming the social life of the people, whereas I want to
mention that attending these sites, does not mean you are being social. We
don’t even know who lives the next door, we merely participate in the social
events. Our life should be our job, instead we have made our job our life.
Earning money is must but earning people is something valuable. We cannot EARN
people through social media sites, Where as these site earns through People. We
can connect to people through these social media sites but can never really get
attached with them.
Our Eating habits are eating our
health.
Homemade food items, breakfasts
are about to vanish, instead it is being replaced by pizza, burger, rolls, 2
minute items and other N number of junk food items, which is sure a cause to
worry for our health.
It’s all about Money.
Gone are the days of saving every
penny and using things till it lasts. In today’s modern culture, we struggle to
satisfy our unending desires, either through money from our pockets, or through
EMIs, which are easily available for every little thing in the markets today. We
spend first, and then what ever is left, are our savings. A complete wrong
move.
It does not matter that how much money you have got, but how
you plan your money matters the most.
Relations.. A very relative term!
In old days, every relation was completely defined in its
scope. But due to modernization, relations have become more open. It has helped
us in sharing our feelings and opinions with each other, which has made some
relations very strong. But at the same time, it has also created many
complexities, which sometimes makes us get away from our dearest one.
“Time is Money…” Someone has said
this, but I must say that
in today’s world, time is something much more than
money. Because people have so much money, but they don’t have time, not only for their family but also for themselves. When we see any accident, passing by
a road, we generally don’t stop because ‘ WE DON’T HAVE TIME ’, And may be our
time is valuable than someone’s life.
Facebook doesn’t come under title ‘Activity
’.
Playing Football , baseball,
Cricket, Carom and Chess..reading books..listening to good music..painting
something??
Are you mad? How come you are doing all these activities,
which
gives you physical and mental relaxation, instead you should play computer
games to gain strain, become aggressive and log in facebook for hours and
making optimum utilization of our time and efforts. Is that what we prefer doing?
Is it in our nature to take care of
nature?
‘Trees gives us fruits, flowers,
oxygen and wood ’, that must be the lines from our 1st std. textbook.
We do parties on beaches, farm houses, Jungle safaris, we enjoy nature. We are
consuming natural resources like gas , oil, etc. in our day to day life. What are
we giving back? Need to think!
After all this, I must say that
our lifestyle is degrading day by day..
Are we doing it intentionally? Surely not, These are the side effects of
this so called fascinating lifestyle, however we cannot avoid this and switch
to our old days, as it is not practical, so what’s the solution for this?
Definitely the BALANCE.
So according to me, if everyone comes up with their
inner thoughts, opinions, experiences and knowledge as well, on various concerns, it will definitely guide us to the path of balance in our life.
So,I invite you all,to share anything you have got,which might be helpful to others,through this blog!!
"Lets Make The Journey Interesting!!"
